What do you look for in friendship…

The necessity of discernment to distinguish friend from frenemy, supporter from saboteur, lover from abuser…

To see what this means…how to protect yourself, who to hold close, who is safe, who is dangerous and must be given space…

When to value a relationship, when to see it is too toxic and destructive.

To not aplogize for protecting and defending yourself, valuing yourself.

To not hurt self to have other people’s love.