The people you can trust with what aspect of self, with what aspect of words and the people you cannot…

Whether they will keep it secret, keep it safe…whether they will think and look to help you, whether they will think and look to gossip, slander, manipulate, or use your confidence, use you.

What is thought to be good and normal manners and behavior in different cliques, organizations, and cultures…how this relates to your own understanding of the nature of things.

How this makes all the difference.